Eight Things I Wish I'd Known About Polyamory by Cunning Minx

And while they cater to gay men, they take wonderful care of customers of all stripes and proclivities. S Leather in San Francisco has been perfecting heavy bondage gear since 1979. And be sure to check out his excellent introductory kits and instructional DVDs and online videos. From basic hemp in six colors (plus a rotating color of the month) to sparkle jute, electroconductive jute, and homespun bamboo and organic raw silk, Monk is the source for your serious rope geekery. That’s cool Twisted Monk has you covered. Or maybe you prefer your rope hand finished in small batches by a master artisan? This gunmetal grey rope has classy written all over it-throw in some safety sheers and you’ve got the gift that keeps on giving. 5/16” is an all-purpose diameter, and lengths of 12′, 25′, and 50’ will take care of most of your needs. Go beyond the hardware store and invest in some good-looking solid core nylon rope. Safety tip: store your padlocks locked with the key in the cylinder, this way you’ll always know you have the key in hand before you start playing. Order multiple padlocks at once and they’ll come keyed alike. Throw in a hog tie strap and you’re good to go! Go beyond basic black and wrap them up like a pretty present with bondage tape, or this lovely posture collar with matching wrist and ankle cuffs, all in purple leather. Leave the novelty handcuffs to the amateurs.

It’s made of soft-yet-sturdy garment leather, padded for light-blocking comfort, and features two adjustable straps to ensure it stays on through all manners of pillow thrashing. When you’re ready to graduate to the real deal, reach for the Ultra Blindfold from Mr. That scarf/tie/novelty blindfold is letting in all sorts of light, and that fake fur liner is itchy. This holiday season, stuff their stocking with a little something extra from my completely NSFW shopping guide for the pervy and otherwise sexually adventurous.įor the love of the tiny baby Jesus in a manger, don’t go all 50 Shades on me. It’s the most wonderful time of the year, and while everyone else is wandering the mall and combing cyber sales to find that perfect, soulless, mass-manufactured gift, I’ll let you in on a little secret: your sweetie doesn’t want socks or a new Roku. ( Please note, this page is NSFW and all links are very NSFW!)

Eight Things I Wish I'd Known About Polyamory by Cunning Minx